Recipes tried and tested in my life.

Ok, so much is going on in my head I’m thinking about everything, I’ve got decisions to make and hard things to move forward with. This is where it’s so important to work on my mind and Soul, I have been working on my mindset and understanding me, I’ve just been figuring more out and I’m getting to a point where I understand so much more than I did before as far as seeing the way I think, the way I process and the way I choose to move forward. It’s exhilarating to feel some freedom from all the negative emotions and confusing thoughts That I have trapped inside. Here’s a thought I’ve been working with, if I want to create a great dish I might want to follow a recipe and if it’s not what I expected or not what tastes good to me maybe I need to tweak it a little, but instead of just little tweaks here and there it’s as if I was always adding more to the pot and stirring it all together making this crazy concoction hoping it was going to be good, so if I don’t have some kind of structure with what I add or when I add them it may be a mess and taste disgusting, as I concentrate or focus on what I want and what is working it’s like I’m finally creating a recipe thats successful instead of creating a disaster. It doesn’t mean it’s easy and the ingredients I need to add are always obvious, but as I become more acquainted with the flavors and what I want and what I like or what has worked together in the past for me then the flavors that don’t blend or work are easy to eliminate. I am the creator of my life and how I want it to turn out, though there isn't always a specific ingredient to add and I have to improvise at times, when I am more familiar with what has worked for me in the past then I become more confident in myself and my abilities to make the choices that create the life I want. I can create amazing results if I follow the recipe and add and take away little thins as I go. I also don’t like the cookie cutter idea because I like to stand out and I like to make a difference and sometimes I like my way better than someone else’s or sometimes their recipe just isn’t my taste. I don’t like to do the same thing over and over again so staying the same as I’ve always been or trying to be like someone else doesn’t really work for me, although I have learned that there is one person who does know the best recipe for my success and he knows the best path to take where it leads to true happiness and peace, my higher power (who is God) knows me best and he has a perfect step by step plan that will lead to my success, he doesn’t always give me all the directions in the way that I think are best or that I even understand at times, but he always has answers available and allows me to choose for myself so I can learn and understand at my level, sometimes learning for myself is hard and I want a hand to hold the whole way, sometimes I want the specific recipe just for my life, but I’ve learned it takes the experience and growth away if I don’t have to struggle to figure things out on my own so I’ve learned to appreciate some of that independent growth. Now I get to figure some things out in my life, I get to decide what works for receiving answers and direction for me, so as far as these “hard” things I “need” to do and decisions I “need” to make I am deciding to change the way I phrase them and take it From “hard” to instead “I’m understanding” or “it’s now easy and obvious to me what to do” and the “need” now becomes “I want” or “I’m excited to make these decisions” if I’m putting it all together in a positive statement it may be “I am knowing deep down inside what is best and I am confident in the decision I will make (or am making).” These statements along with some Emotional freedom tapping or EFT and daily consistency will bring results. I love to see people reach a higher level than they had previously been. 

I know it take s a lot of work because I have also been in a place of not understanding anything or getting any answers and just feeling so alone through the process, in those moments I think of just one reason to move forward, it may be something like the thought of a loved one and memories together or a time when you’ve done something for someone else and you knew how much it meant to them, that you were the reason they were blessed at a crucial time in their life, even the moments where you may have been an answer to someone’s prayer and it saved their life, maybe it’s because you know that someone loves you and wants you to be happy, that’s what I need most of the time, at least one reason to keep trying. #fromhairtosoul #lifebyemily #becauseofhim #recipetosuccess