Control or let Go

Do you ever wonder to yourself what it would be like if You didn’t have to deal with the hard things in life? Or if you were in control of it all. I am reminding myself constantly that no matter how difficult life, relationships, health, and all over wellness may be I still have a choice to make. The choice is who do I want to be and what result do I want in spite of all this stuff happening in my life? I have started letting go of what I can’t control. I am recognizing more and more what I can do and what I can control, I know it’s the same idea in every post but seriously it helps me so much to just let go and only take control of me, my thoughts and feelings around any and all situations, it’s easier said than done sometimes because understanding and taking control of me and my thoughts and the emotions Created from those thoughts is hard work and constant effort, being connected to myself on a higher level is always going to require deeper thinking and the ability to be compassionate and patient with myself and to not numb myself through food, social media or plain laziness, when I have a quiet moment I sometimes just sit and think or write down my thoughts and start doing some energy work on myself. I am grateful for the tools I have to help me get through the discomfort and stress of life. We all have the ability to reach a higher and more conscious level of being, the spirit within each of us longs for more connection, the more conscious and present we are the more our spirit gets to be our guide. This intuition is what inspires and blesses us to use our gifts to bless others. When we are balanced with body mind and spirit we reach outside of ourselves and live the life we are meant to live, we see the needs of those around us and create greatness in that word. So who do I want to be? I want to be better at fulfilling my purpose, I want to love more purely and unconditionally, I want to be my best self, I am creating the results I want by the actions I take and I choose to live and be and do because of how I choose to think and feel. So again, I do have control in some areas but the things I can’t control I let it go, I give it to my higher power and let go of the worry and the fear of the unknown future, I just decide to have enough faith that he can make my life better. He can create some results in my life that I never could. He is my rock, my light and my best friend. I can ugly cry as often as I need to and I don’t feel judged or criticized. I am thankful for my Savior Jesus Christ. I am thankful that he can lighten the heavy burden that is placed upon me. I am thankful that I don’t have to do anything on my own, even when I feel totally alone I know deep down that I’m not, even when I feel weak and unsupported there is someone strengthening me and there to support me. The blessings that exist because of all that He did for me are numberless. I repeatedly make mistakes and need constant forgiveness and that’s exactly what he offers. I feel this unexplainable peace because of him. I would love to hear how you are able to get through some of your tough times and what tools you use to let go of things you can’t control. #fromhairtosoulcoaching #lifebyemily #fromhairtosoul #letgoofcontrol #becauseofhim #undersanding #lettingitgo