Experiences

Lately I’ve been feeling the need to be less negative with my situation especially when I am talking to other people about it. Yesterday as I began to Look back I could see how every time someone would mention me being pregnant or I would tell someone about it it always came with an explanation of how unexpected and hard to deal with it is. Even if that’s the truth of how I think and feel I decided it doesn’t have to be what I attach to it for everyone else. Why do I feel the need for everyone to feel how I feel or to “sympathize” a certain way for me? Is it my insecurities seeking validation or me thinking that this is how I can control how everyone views me and my situation? I’m not in control of all of that other stuff and as I let go of the need to put everyone on my side I will be more in control of my thoughts and feelings. I am grateful for this new experience and all that I get to learn daily. It’s incredible how if I can just learn to let things be and not force anything or try to change it all it works out the way it’s meant to and I can feel more peace and contentment in any situation. Have a blessed week! #lifebyemily #fromhairtosoulcoaching #fromhairtosoul